What Do I Call Myself?: How to Step Into Your Next-Level Identity Without Waiting for Permission

If you’re an ambitious woman who’s ready to pivot in business or life, you’ve probably asked yourself this question more than once: “What do I even call myself?”

You’ve built something incredible — maybe a successful business, a thriving career, or a reputation for being the go-to woman who gets things done.

But now, you’re standing at the start line of something new. You’re craving more.

And suddenly, your confidence takes a hit — because you can’t quite name this next version of you.

When Focusing on “What do I even call myself?” Keeps You Stuck

Here’s what I’m seeing again and again with high-achieving women in transition:

You’ve done amazing work in one lane, but when you want to pivot, you can’t quite connect the dots between your experience and your next big thing.

Maybe you’re asking yourself things like:

• “I’ve only ever run a brick-and-mortar. Can I really call myself a speaker?”
• “I own a bookkeeping business, but now I want to help people with wellness — so, what am I now?”
• “I’ve always been the go-to advice girl… can I really call myself a coach?”
• “I’ve been a stay-at-home mom — who am I to speak on stages?”

The truth?

The title you’re searching for might be keeping you from your next level of growth.

You don’t need a perfect name for what you do before you start doing it.

You need clarity, confidence, and the courage to move forward.

Stop asking ‘What Do I Call Myself?’ and start taking action!

You Don’t Need Permission — You Just Need to Begin

I’ve been there too. For far too long, I waited for someone else to tell me what I could call myself. When I finally owned my role as a business coach, everything shifted.

You don’t need external permission to step into the role you’re meant for.

If you’ve already spoken at a community event, church, or local workshop — you’re a speaker.

If you’re helping women make real progress and transformation — you’re a coach.

If you’re inspiring others through your ideas and leadership — you’re a thought leader.

You’re already doing the work.

You just haven’t claimed the title yet.

Mindset Shift: Stop Waiting for the Big Stage

Here’s the thing — personal growth doesn’t happen in giant leaps. It happens when you stretch your mindset just a little further than where you are right now.

The goal isn’t to go from “I’ve never spoken publicly” to “I’m headlining a national conference” overnight. That kind of leap feels impossible — so your brain freezes.

Instead, think in small, powerful steps.

Focus on the Next 90 Days, Not the Next Decade

Ask yourself this:

“What is my 90-day future self doing differently than my current self?”

• Is she saying yes to more opportunities?
• Is she getting more rest and showing up with more energy?
• Is she pitching herself for podcasts or events?
• Is she finally believing she’s ready?

The 90-day version of you feels attainable — and that’s exactly how change sticks. Your 90-day self isn’t some far-off fantasy. She’s just one small step (and one bold decision) away.

Action Creates Confidence

If you want to become a speaker — start writing your first talk. Practice it while you fold laundry. Reach out to a local business, networking group, or online summit and pitch a topic. You don’t need a title to start — starting gives you the title.

When you take small, aligned action, confidence follows. And before you know it, you’re not “trying to be” a speaker or a coach — you are one.

The Transformation: From “What Do I Call Myself?” to “This Is Who I Am.”

When you stop waiting for permission and start acting as the 90-day version of yourself:

• You stop overthinking and start moving.
• You attract aligned opportunities instead of chasing them.
• You gain clarity about your direction and confidence in your identity.

You become the woman who owns her impact — boldly, unapologetically, and without hesitation.

Ready to Become Your 90-Day Future Self?

If you’re tired of circling the same goal, and staying stuck asking ‘What Do I Call Myself?‘, and ready to move forward with clarity and momentum, I’d love to support you.

Book your Path Forward Call — a 20-minute 1:1 session where we’ll map your next steps and uncover mindset blocks so you can confidently step into your next identity.

Stop asking, “What do I call myself?”

Start becoming the woman you were meant to be, now.